The Wiggle Room is hosting a date auction this Friday at 2 pm slt.
For the the dancers who can not be there or people who want to make a bid but can't be there that day/time, we've put up auction boards.
Prize: a one hour date with the dancer you placed a bid on.
The date itself is exactly that - intimate activity is by consent only (or further negotiation)
As a potential winner, you aren't paying for sex with your date but for the pleasure of their company.
More than that is between you as mature adults.
In the 3 years I'm in Second Life I've met more guys making drama than girls.
Yes girls are nasty when they get their drama started, but the dramakings on SL have a certain way about them which makes me want them kicked off SL for good.
Here's just some of the things that make me wish these guys would leave SL forever:
1. The I Need a Lot of Attention and If I Don't Get It I'll Make You Feel Guilty Dramaking:
The guy sneaks in your IM and expects you give him all of your attention, if you can't you'll get messages like "I could just better delete my account cause no one on my friendlist has ever time for me" "Maybe I should quit SL, because I feel as lonely here as in RL" "See, I'm worth nothing" Often they also want sex from you because that will make them feel better "I haven't been loved in SL for months now"
2. The I Got Caught in a Lie and Now I'll Play The Victim Dramaking:
Liars. You catch them on lie and all of a sudden it's someone elses fault or in some cases they'll even try and put the blame on you. Again they like to threaten with leaving SL for good. But either they don't, come back within 3 weeks or just start a new account. And start their lies all over again.
They also never cheat... no.. the girls who bother them and accuse them for cheating are the girls who make the drama and are the liars. Usually they'll pick out a woman who is so wrapped up in herself and thinks she's so awesome her guy doesn't have a reason to fuck around. And if you confront this lady about her man you'll get the same bullshit.
3. The I Want All The Attention, Even If I Have To Abuse Other People's Trust Dramaking:
Guys who can't stand other guys to have all the attention and tell lies about that other guy, tell people not to get involved with him. Usually they accuse the other guy doing things they do themselves. When confronted with their drama, lies and gossip. They'll either lie to your face or tell you they just passed on what they hear from others.
I met a couple of these kings.
They are off my friendlist and will never be readded. I've given them all a second change but with all I got indirectly (thank god not directly) involved with their crap again.
These kind of people are the real vampires on SL. Sucking out every last bit of energy out of the people they meet. They lie, blame others, are narcisists.
I'm sure you know one or two dramakings on SL too.
So this new club has opened in Second Life: The Wiggle Room, burlesque & social club.
You might think, so what's the big deal? Another stripper place?
Well not really. First The Wiggle Room doesn't have strippers, it has striptease dancers. No girls in slutty outfits or weird clothing combos. All girls dress in the best clothing (lingerie or burlesque clothing) and belong to the prettiest avatars in SL. No, porno emoting, groping or maturbating, but with classy, sensual and teasing emotes the girls belong to the best emoters out there. The club has a lush feel compared to most dance / stripclubs in sl. The texturing is rich, the furniture inviting.
Yes! But the stage works like magic. The girls can rezz an pole, a stool, even a lapdance chair. If they get bored with those they can just leave them off the stage.
Why is it called "Burlesque & Social Club"
Because people who seek different things than strippers can have a good time at The Wiggle Room too.
There is a beach, a sundeck, couples can use the hybrid dance ball and dance on the beach or inside the club.
Yes, but not the boring "Best in Whatever" The Wiggle Room tries to provide as much live entertainment as possible. DJ's playing requests, live performers, trivia and on Saturday's we even have an Erotic Poetry group who read their poetry on voice.
I don't like posting chat logs on my blog and in this case it's not even mine.
A friend sent it to me, asking me (as I'm a Domme / Mistress / Goddess) if she had been at fault.
I read it and had a laugh! Seriously, again my thoughts about people in SL bdsm relationships have no idea what respect is and it's mostly an ego and sexual thing has been confirmed.
[04:15] Friend: Miss, my I comment on something?
[04:15] Miss: Sure, what is it?
[04:16] Friend: your groups, the dog thing groups. it kinda makes me feel sick Miss, and as we are still in our trail period I'm thinking that someone who is in that kind of thing isn't my type of Mistress
[04:17] Miss: I am just exploring.
[04:17] Friend: it's exploring a boundry too far for me Miss
[04:18] Miss: It is not something I am going to push onto you.
[04:18] Miss: If you don't like it, thats fine. I wont bring it up with you.
[04:19] Friend: well to be honest, it's also a boundry too far for the person I would like to be submit to. If you are in to animal sex Miss, you are not the person for me sorry.
[04:19] Friend: the whole idea just makes me gag
[04:20] Miss: Thats ok.
[04:20] Miss: Im not saying I am into it, but it is something I am looking at to get a better opinion in how I feel.
[04:20] Miss: I wont force any of it on you.
[04:21] Friend: I don't you understand me Miss, if you are in to animal sex I don't want to be your sub
[04:21] Miss: I am not into it.
[04:21] Friend: Sorry, Miss you told me you are exploring it
[04:22] Miss: Looking at it, but not trying it.
[04:22] Miss: I am seeing what people are doing, to get my own opinion
[04:24] Friend: Anyways Miss, I now have the feeling I'm not the girl for you and you are not the Mistress for me,sorry, I hope you will find someone else who can completely submit to you, but I guess it's not me. Take Care Miss
[04:24] Miss: Okay if thats what you want, but I think you have the wrong idea of what is going on and making a poor assumption of who I am. I feel a little insulted by this.
[04:26] Friend: I just follow my feeling Miss, if it's not good it's not good, maybe I'm wrong maybe I'm not but I can't submit if it doesn't feel good to me. Besides wasn't the purpose of this whole trail to get to know each other Miss and see if there is a click?
[04:27] Miss: Yes, and this would be the second time we've been together. I just started looking at these groups tonight, so it is not like its been months or weeks.
[04:27] Miss: and for you to tell me that you don't want to be with me, because of something I was looking at for one night seems rude.
[04:29] Friend: it's not rude Miss, everything inside me says sex with animals is BAD. So if someone is just looking in to it, it means there is an interest in something that goes beyond what I think is right. I could say, that for you not to accept the fact that things like that disgust me even when someone is just looking in to it, is kinda unrespectful towards me
[04:30] Friend: I've been in to BDSM for a long time Miss
[04:30] FRiend: RL that is
[04:30] Friend: and it's all about respect
[04:30] Miss: I didn't say I was interested in it.
[04:31] Miss: I had a discussion about it with a friend, and realized I knew nothing. So I looked into it to get an opinion.
[04:31] Miss: I never said I wanted to have sex with animals, and for you not to understand that was rude to me.
[04:32] Friend: Miss you are right, I'm rude.. really rude .. you don't want a rude sub
[04:32] Miss: I never said that
[04:33] Miss: but you did not give me a proper chance to explain what I was doing, then you jumped right to the assumption I wanted to have sex with animals and based an opinion on facts that were wrong
[04:33] Friend: well Miss you seem to asume things too, as I said that there must be an interest for dog sex on your side
[04:33] Second Life: User not online - message will be stored and delivered later.
(Later this person set her doggy cum sex goups on hidden) LMAO
This comes over to me that this Domme has major issues with rejection and respecting other people's feelings. See how she squirms from first admitting she is exploring dog sex to later come up with excuses she is not. Calling my friend RUDE, for assuming things but cleary not respecting her feelings about things like having sex with dogs. Seeing what people are doing with dogs, SL or RL tells me that a person doing that isn't apalled by it, like my friend is and that there must be a sexual curiosity for it, even if one decides to get involved with sick things like that or not.
So dear friend, you are so right rejecting this Domme if dog sex makes you sick to the stomach.
And yes, in my opinion you are right when you told me you had the feeling she was trying to blame you for her own sick mind and tried her best to squirm out the conversation.
Find yourself a real Domme / Dom!
Why would a person be in 3!!! dog sex groups if she is just reading up on things? You do not need to join a group for that, the internet is full of disgusting things like animal sex.
I'm thinking of starting a movement within SL to get guys to wear shirts and not walk around "topless" all the time. I'm really starting to get annoyed when being in a club, at least 60% of the male guests aren't wearing shirts. Like do they walk around shirtless in RL all the time too.
It's not the occasional shirtless day, most of the guys I meet are never ever wearing a shirt.
Not to mention the ones that think that wearing a pair of noob pants and bare feet will not be notices because of their strong muscular body *coughs*
BTW I'm not talking about newbie folks here, not everyone can afford non noob paints and shoes.
Really guys.... we ladies don't like shirtless guys that much.
Personally I feel that a well and fully dressed avi is much more appealing to women
I also think we women are discrimated.
Also during shopping sprees at PG / M / Adult sims I encounter a lot of guys who walk around topless in stores. Maybe their shirt got stolen from the washing line and they are looking for a new one.. who knows
But as a woman, taking a stroll or shop on SL topless, you'll probably end up with an ejection of sim ban.
I had the unfortunate experience that I was kicked off a sim recently for shopping Topless! I swear my innocence in this matter because on my screen I really was wearing a top and also a check in my inventory confirmed I really had something on, but the owner was resentless and kicked me off.
Anyways: guys! please keep your shirt on.
Being manager at a long running SL stripclub, I see several applicant every week.
We have a good idea what we are looking for and what we do not want. To make it a little easier we made an application form. The first problems start here. You don't have to be well read to understand it, it just simply asks you to answer some questions and it's stated clearly that incomplete application forms will be rejected. So what do I get ha;f the time? Incomplete application forms.
Second problem is that we clearly state that you have to be a rl female and speak/write english fluently (or close to) and who apply? Guys with female avi's or people who do not have a clue what you ask them during the interview procedure.
My biggest problem with rejected applicants is that 99% of them doesn't take NO for an answer and I almost always have to mute (and sometimes ban) them cause they keep bothering me, even threaten me or tell me the club sucks anyways. They should try this at RL applications, I'm sure they don't have the guts for that.
What are they thinking? Our application form is pretty clear and for the guys with female avi's, I don't have a problem with gender crossing on Second Life, but we attract VIPS telling them we have rl women on stage.
And then they tell me I'm a gender racist!
Some people probably suck in RL and need to overcompensate in SL
Check your Transaction History, there's a bug thats paying your L$ to Groups you belong to from your balance. To prevent this from happening again request any group owner to uncheck the box "Pay Group Liabilities" under Accounting.
Most group owners do not realize this box is checked and not all groups will take your linden.
Most problems occur with groups that have land, group deeded land. The group liabilities help pay for listings and such. Usually an amount of L$1 is taken from your account
Now unless you have lost a big amount, I advice to cut your losses.
But I do recommend you contacting the group owner and ask them to uncheck the box "Pay Group Liabilities" under Accounting.
Omg .. I'm so jealous.
I already seen the rough editing for Thorgal McGillivary's new movie/portfolioshoot Heavenly.
I begged, I pleaded.. even offered him to give him blowjobs when ever he wants for the rest of the year, but he was dead set on using girls who never did a movie before.
Lucky lucky girls .. because this movie is smoking hot.
The movie is going through it's finally stages of editing and hopefully we will see the result before the end of the weekend
There is a lot to do (again) about gender issues on SL.
You read it on blog posts, polls, SL forum... people having problems with people not playing an avi with their RL gender. Much a do about nothing, if you ask me...
It's Second Life and not "Recreating my RL in pixels" A lot of people I know come on SL to escape their RL so why should it matter if they play a girl avi when the person behind the keyboard has actually a dick between their legs and vice versa. This world is about make believe .. being something you can not be in real life, doing stuff that is impossible for real life. Of course it becomes a whole different story when you go on Second Life looking for romance, fall in love and then find out the man of their dreams is actually a house wife and mother of 10.
Personally I don't have a lot of sympathy for people who are mislead this way and what to inform the whole SL community about their sorrow. They should have been more carefull in this make believe world. People on Second Life lie more than people in RL. Why? Because it's harder to get caught lying in Second Life.
This doesn't mean I don't condemn people misleading others when it comes to SL gender. I think it's disguisting when you let people believe you are a man or woman if you know that person is falling in love with you and is even thinking about making a RL romance. People who do that are either so insecure they wanna hold on to that person with lies or just don't have an conscious and think it's fun misleading people like that.
Here is my advice on the whole matter:
If you are about to loose your heart to an avatar either do your best to get the real RL on this person before you fall head over heels or let go of any homofobic anxiety and accept you fell in love with the person regarding their sexuality. Or just don't fall in love on SL at all and put you energy in to finding someone on a datingsite or just by going out in to the real world and meet real live people (you can actually do that and unlike SL you do not get "Biting" invitations)
And for the people lying about their RL/SL gender. It's okay if you prefer to play with an avi of the opposite gender. But when you realize someone is falling for you, you should step up and tell them who/what you really are. Yes, you might loose that person for good but the truth tends to come out anyways.. so better make it sooner than later.
Lately there isn't much to blog about.
I'm working my second life ass of for the club, spending time with the ones.
Plus RL has been taking over most of my time the past 3 weeks.
So I'll leave you with this pic .. of which I'm still not sure to use as my new profile pic (the current one still gets a lot of positive response)
I'm picky... 95% of porn made in this world just doesn't do it for me.
I don't like women looking like they have hot air balloons on their chest or men who have a huge dick but look like the hobo at the train station. The first porn movies I watched back in the 90's had me rolling over laughing rather then getting naughty. I recall my boyfriend at the time, had dragged a matras to the livingroom, lighted candles and had massaging oil and a porno (I think from Wicked) about an archeologist. One scene I'll never forget (because I peed my pants laughing and gone was the romantic evening) was with some Egyptian shepherds fucking the village whore who had a bush bigger than the hair on her head.
From that day on I decided I'd pick out the VSH pornos from the videostore.
I started watching movies made by Michael Ninn, but it was a friend who pointed me to the work of Andrew Blake And I feel in love.
His movies are perfect... no stupid storylines, no cheap looking big chested bimbos, no hairy huge cocked hobos but classy decors, the prettiest costumes and jewelry and girls looking like they walked out of a pin up glamour shoot. The first movie I bought was Playthings starring Dahlia Grey
I became an instant Dahlia (who only does girl on girl scene's ) fan
Recently I "sold" my huge Blake VSH collection as I now only own a DVD player.
Lucky dude, who picked them up!
I've added a tag in my personal group I.M. Yours for people interested being in my photoshoot.
If you are interested you can request such a tag by sending me a notecard with your bio, experience and photographs
Second Life can be a scary place if you are a Dom(me)/Master/Mistress/Goddess or a submissive/slave.
Just the other day my submissive SL sister told me her "Master" got emotional manipulative on her because she missed one of his Tweets. He did not leave her any room at all to explain that she can't always log in to Twitter or has time to answer things when she is not on Second Life... no he pulled one of those "Oh I'm so hurt.. you ruined my day" acts. We all know how I feel about that http://lionheartspurr.blogspot.com/2011/03/next-person-who.html
So I told her she should tell him to piss off and that a real Master doesn't cry like a sissy in IM because his Tweet was left unanswered and that he wasn't worth explaining why she had missed it. But of course she did not follow my advise and gave him her apologies...
But it makes you wonder, doesn't it... How an insecure person must be sitting at the other and an pretending he is a Dom?
One of my subs called me a "Princess" the other day... not a Dom or a Mistress.. I was acting like a "Princess".. maybe he is right.. I don't consider myself a Dom or Mistress but a Goddess... and the name "Princess" doesn't bother me at all. I'm pretty much the person on SL as I am in RL.. I like to be spoiled, have my way, like to be served, am very good in manipulating people to get what I want, am always right and find most people I meet idiots or brain dead.
I get about 10 IMs a day, of people interested being my sub/slave.
Most have read my profile but probably weren't able to understand the line "I'm not taking in new subs unless it's a paid session" and most of them are pretty persistent in having their way.
They will tell me that they worship all Women and are totally submissive to them.. that they will give me complete control... that Women are superior to men, that they will always do as I tell them and never doubt my decisions, remark, comment or what so over.
But those same people tell me that all Women are sluts and that they would like to hurt or even kill me or hurt/kill themselves if I turn them down. And as I don't take in any more.. I turn down a lot...
They also always want to have an explanation, why I don't want them. Just a simple no or not interested isn't good enough... Hey who is the D/M/Goddess here?... I should not have to explain myself if you really claim to do and except everything a Women says. I also have a couple of them muted simply because they will not except that I don't want them. Also makes you wonder who is sitting at the other end and why, doesn't it.
I still believe most aren't in the D/s scene because of the D/s but for the sex.
They will getting freaky in your IM when you reject them and they almost all wanna show you pics of their RL cocks "Uhm sorry what has your RL cock to do with D/s unless you want to add a little RL D/s to the SL session but then still I'm not interested in seeing your dirty fat ugly cock"
I'm thinking about making a black list.
But then again, what's the use?
I've seen people being a Domme on their main account and a sub on their Alt.
If they are on a black list they will just simply make a new account as start bothering other people again.
Need to be packing...
Time for vacation
I told myself a thousand times: "Don't.. Don't you do it girlfriend! A love like that will ruin your Linden Bank Account" But then I did it and and actually doubled my budget. Because I fell in love... in love with her ody eyes.
I sold a lot of Petable Eggs this week on Marketplace so I guess it wasn't a bad thing to spoil myself with a new love. There was one catch though, I had to drug her... so I don't have to provide her with stuff.
I'm sure by now you know I'm not talking about a new human girlfriend.
And no... I did not become another Meeroo victim.
I bought a KittyCats cat. A Black Russian with Odessy Sorbet Eyes
Making friends on the internet isn't the easiest thing for me. Don't misunderstand me... I'm a very social creature, but my sarcastic sense of humor, my (at times) geekiness, blunt comments and dominant personality can get in the way of getting actually close to someone. I'm not an asskisser.. I prefer people kissing mine, but the ones I want to kiss my ass also need to live up to my high standards ( am I making any sense?)
Daily I get several requests for sessions with straying subs/pets/slaves.. but to be honest, most of those people I find boring. They want to be whipped, kiss my feet, let me stick a dildo up their ass and all for just their sexual satisfaction. Or say (in my opinion) dumb, stupid or irrational things to me.
At the moment I'm blessed with a very small group of actually intelligent social submissives.
One of them is Morgen.
We are just getting to know each other but every minute of my time with him I'm blown away by his intelligence, prose, humor and how easy it is to get along with him. That's one of the reasons I wanted to take things slow (I know .. sounds weird right... cuz he is also incredibly sexy)
This week we took our "relationship" to a higher level ........................................
Meet Shae .. she is beautiful, sexy, is blessed with a voice that can make your toes curl with delight.
Shae likes it when I call her "babygirl" and when I cum in her mouth. Shae also would like to be in a SL (Lesbian) Porn someday (preferably with me.. but not nessecaraly).
So... here's Shae
I feel so much more in control now in my SL life and I'm meeting such great new people.
Still... I do get the daily IM or 3 from people offering themselves to me and turn out to be just looking for some tits and ass to play with. They accept my spanking lethargically, giving me some random response cuz all they are really after is sex. And of course you get the odd guy that says he loves to be taken in and accepts you as their Goddess but as soon as you do not respond quick enough they go all mental at you.
Linden has come up with new initual avatars.
So you do not have to walk around looking like Ruth in her polkadot dress (that was my starter avi) or Newbie the male Noob with his striped shirt. Now you can look like an animal, a robot or even a car. Offcourse I needed to check it out. And because they are the most sexual of all I choose the bunny.
It was kinda cute but needed to get a Porn Star make over.
You can see the result on the left.
I IMed a friend asking if he ever fucked a bunny. He thought I would show up in a Playboy Bunny outfit.It's a good thing he is always in for a laugh and we even tested out my new BDSM hud with me wearing this "costume"
It's amazing what a little of spare time can do with a person.
As much as I hated it, closing my club down, how much now I realize it was the best thing to do.
I have more time for managing Heaven N Hell, hanging out at the Femdom places and meeting awesome new people.
The Noob is gone but an amazing new house came in return.
For the curious people: